![]() ![]() I know dating is one of the things I need to leave in God’s hands and have His help in getting over the nerves. But I get so nervous I get knots in my stomach. I want to ask a woman in my church choir out for coffee or lunch on a Sunday afternoon. Your problem is solved.ĭear Abby: I’m a gentleman who would like to date more than I do. Enjoy your visits with her, and do not drag her into this. You dealt with your friend’s husband appropriately without involving his wife. Should I say something? - Perplexed in Californiaĭear Perplexed: No. I think it’s sad that he has to run away. ![]() In fact, the last time I went I saw him driving away when I drove up! I don’t hold a grudge against the guy. My friend makes silly excuses why he isn’t at home when I visit. Now when I visit my friend, her husband is never there. I told him I thought his teasing went too far and to please not do it again. I was really angry at him, but because I didn’t want to involve my friend, I sent him an email. Eventually he stopped, and I continued my visit. I can take a joke, but the teasing got mean. The last time, her husband, who I’ve also known for years and who I thought was a friend, started teasing me. ![]() I'm so confused lol OK so apologies in advance if I ramble on lol I've know this guy for years and we have always had a laugh and I have always liked him but he was engaged and had moved away from the area.Dear Abby: About 10 years ago, I visited my oldest and dearest friend, who I see a few times a year. does he like me or is he just scared to see it go wrong, since he has seen so many friend, turn s/o, to never speaking again. He has told me he would hate to loose me as a friend and it took him a while to talk to me just to make sure he didn't loose me as a friend.but the ting is he still stares at me and we still talk and flirt, he even gets jealous of other guys in our own friend group when I give them more attention then him. He is a major introvert, and is very honest and since i have only known him for like 5 months, i don't know if i should just keep hope alive and get to know him on a more intimate level and see where it goes, since he already knows i like him. We have ton in common, he even told me he was surprised since no girl has ever liked him before, he currently says he likes someone else(i asked, he didn't volunteer) but when he said yes and he saw i was sad, he instantly started to change it up, saying while he can see himself dating her, he sees it as a bro/sis relationship, mainly because of her, she was the first girl that he opened up to after years that is why he feels a closeness to her, is what he told me. I have a crush on a guy, and I told him about it, we are pretty good friends, known each other for about 5 months, he is extremely serious when it comes to relationships, i cannot tell if he likes me or not, while he told me in a 8 hour (yes 8 hours) talk, he told me he cant see anything above friendship, mainly because he dosent know me that well, he is one of those guys that takes them like years to develop a crush because they want to get to know someone, and even more time to make a move. If he is not interested, it is important to respect his decision and not pressure him into a relationship. Ask him if he is interested in more than just being friends. If you want to know how your crush really feels about you, it is best to talk to him directly. He may also not be interested in talking to you about his personal life or sharing his thoughts and feelings with you. He may not make any physical contact with you, even if it is something as simple as a hug. There are other signs that your crush may see you as only a friend. It could also mean that he is not ready to act on his feelings yet. It could simply mean that he is not comfortable expressing his emotions or is not sure how to express them. It is important to note that just because your crush is not jealous, it does not mean that he does not have feelings for you. However, if your crush does not get jealous when you talk about other guys or spend time with them, it could be a sign that he only sees you as a friend. Jealousy is a common emotion, and it is natural to feel a little jealous when your crush talks about or hangs out with someone else. ![]()
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